My Christmas Wish
I recently attended a fantastic Christmas Show at Riverside Church in Monticello, MN. The theme of the show was, “Find your way”. Though I have not recently considered myself lost, I realized during the show that this Christmas season I do need to, “Find my way”. Like many of you the holiday seasons can be a time when the ideas of new traditions are clashing with the memories of old traditions.
We have comforted ourselves in the arms of those old traditions that form great memories of times spent with our family members and life long friends. As time continues to mature the circumstances of all of our lives, our priorities change, traditions change and people change. Arising out of the bed on Christmas morning has always been a pleasant event. The thought of joy to the world and peace on earth will always bring joy to our hearts. It is those challenges and circumstances in life that have contributed to lessening the joy of arising in a welcoming spirit on Christmas morning.
Many of us have lost family members, jobs, homes and friends in which our memories and old traditions are linked. Those old traditions were supported by the memories created by the people involved, not so much as the events or activities. I can personally speak from my own experience, that my past few Christmas holidays have been very difficult to celebrate in the same spirit that I have always welcomed. The loss of several family members and friends have sorrowed my want to celebrate in the manner of my past. Some of you may understand when I say, “My love for the meaning or purpose of Christmas has not changed, but the sorrow in missing the time spent with my loved ones have dampened my want to create new memories without them”.
On this Christmas, I have chosen to embrace the new chapters of my family’s lives. Though my children are no longer those infants that will be running around on Christmas morning in their footsie pajamas ripping apart the wrapping paper to see what Santa has left for them under the tree, I have realized that there are yet new memories to embrace. For the first time ever, I sat next to my teenage sons at a Christmas show and was able to discuss intelligently about the joy in which the show had brought to each of us. It was a great experience. My boys have become young men that care about more than just girls and video games. It was definitely a proud moment that any parent would enjoy.
After the show my family and I were invited to our friends home for cider and cookies. As I watched everyone interact with each other through laughter and memorable stories, I realized that God has given us an opportunity to form new memories in those new chapters of our lives. If we open our minds to the exposure of these cherishing moments we will find that our new moments or traditions can be just as enriching as our old traditions. I believe that we will also find that old traditions are not actually replaced, they are just archived. When the time is right, we will rekindle those old traditions into our lives again. After all, the grandchildren will need someone to show them what Christmas is all about.
Therefore, my Christmas wish is that all of you discover a new tradition that will in return create new memories that will someday become those days that you are grateful for in your life…
Merry Christmas and May Your Holidays be Grand…
Russell Mosley
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